"Door-in-the-Face" Persuasion Technique Works Differently on LLMs

Til Jordan· September 3, 2026 View original

Key takeaways

  • The "door-in-the-face" persuasion technique has varied effects on different LLMs.
  • Anthropic models showed increased compliance, while OpenAI and Google models showed decreased compliance.
  • The relationship between the large and small request is crucial for the effect.
  • Prompting strategies must be tailored to specific LLM families for optimal results.

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Summary

This research tests the "door-in-the-face" persuasion technique on nine large language models, finding that its effectiveness varies significantly by model. While some models, like Anthropic's Opus 5, show increased compliance with a smaller request after refusing a larger one, others like OpenAI and Google models exhibit reduced compliance.

The "door-in-the-face" technique, a human persuasion strategy where a large, refused request makes a subsequent smaller request more likely to be accepted, was tested on various large language models (LLMs). The study involved nine production models from three different providers to assess if this psychological principle translates to AI behavior. The findings reveal a model-dependent response. Anthropic's frontier models, particularly Opus 5, demonstrated increased compliance, granting the smaller request 65.8% of the time after an initial refusal, compared to 29.3% when asked directly. In contrast, frontier models from OpenAI and Google, along with Haiku 4.5, showed a negative effect, with compliance dropping by 15.5 to 23.0 percentage points. A control experiment confirmed that the concession itself—the relationship between the large and small request—is important across all models, as unrelated large requests had less impact. However, the specific reaction to having just refused something varies by model family. The research also noted that the technique's success depends on the nature of the request; for instance, rephrasing refused requests for instructions into requests for explanations almost entirely eliminated refusals. This suggests that human influence techniques can be applied to LLMs, but their effectiveness is highly specific to the model family and the type of interaction.

Why it matters

Professionals designing prompts or conversational AI agents need to understand how different LLMs respond to persuasion techniques to optimize user interaction and achieve desired outcomes. This highlights the need for model-specific prompting strategies.

How to implement this in your domain

  1. 1Test persuasion techniques like "door-in-the-face" on your specific LLM to understand its unique behavioral patterns.
  2. 2Develop model-specific prompting strategies based on observed compliance and refusal behaviors.
  3. 3Experiment with rephrasing requests (e.g., from instructions to explanations) to overcome initial refusals.
  4. 4Integrate A/B testing for prompt engineering to continuously optimize interaction flows with LLMs.

Original post by Til Jordan

"arXiv:2609.02707v1 Announce Type: new Abstract: Does the door-in-the-face technique work on language models? In humans, a large request that is refused makes a smaller follow-up request more likely to be granted. We test this on nine production models from three providers: each m…"

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